From the age of 9-13, I was essentially a human chemistry set. Six variants of psychotropics were applied to me and two were effective(to a degree) The rather cavalier manner of the doctors and disregard for my complaints with a chorus of "give it a few more months"...well,it wasn't until I used the magic term "suicidal ideation" that they really seemed to grasp what I was expressing.
I wish it was limited to my childhood, but in adulthood I was prescribed a "mood altering" drug,which put me into an extreme anhedonic state and anomie set in. They took me off the drug in August and it wasn't until December that I was feeling "well" enough to even see people.
I'm sure there are many success stories, but my personal experience isn't one. I have relatives/co-workers where that treatment was effective...
I don't limit my criticisms to the health care system. Humanity in itself is actually my number one annoyance in this issue...there are way too many selfish people out there who should never even consider having kids-but they do(my family is full of them) and then seem generally surprised when the stresses of marriage/parenting catch up to them. I'm not trying to be Herbert Spencer here,but My God, are there way too many "borderline" personalities who feel a need to procreate time and time again until they get it right.
Yeah, I get it Eddie. I really do. And I also know that there a large number of practitioners that are not doing anyone any good.
Your assessment is dead on. We spring up more borderlines than there are sticks to shake at them. And we have no social accountability. From puberty till menopause it is considered a godsend to pop out babies with no consideration to their future and the consequences to society at large.
We make people accountable for having pets but want to be a parent... we don't give a shit. I am always amazed at the sanctimony of how special babies are... unless we have to spend a dime of "public" monies. And god forbid we would ever suggest some uterus with a name should not be allowed to have children.
Forgive my bluntness and possible insensitivity. I have to work with many of these children. I no longer have a heart for treating them. As much as people want to deny the fact, many children have been so mistreated they will never be appropriate for living in society.
Not to get to specific but some time ago I had to assess a 10 year old that had killed a very young sibling. This was a functioning mentally capable child with insight and judgement. Understood the concept of right and wrong but had no connection to other people. That 10 year old will never get better, never be "human" and will always be a sociopath.
Those are not the "normal" type patients. And even though it is popular to suggest mental health therapy is at times ineffective, statistics show otherwise.
I know I am going "onanon", But one problem we have in this country is a blind allegiance to the myth of rugged individualism and pulling ourselves up by our bootstraps. That mentality is counterproductive to healthcare in general and in mental healthcare it is toxic. Until we divorce ourselves from the stigma of mental illness and realize we are a village we will continue to suffer these consequences.
I do not mean to sound pollyannish I understand many are concerned that if we provide too much help we may actually enable malingering. I do not have answers to everything. I do know that how it is now is bad and getting worse.
And by the way I am not sure c2c is a nde, I do know that more often than not it is a near shit experience.