Auuuuugh!! Color me ashamed to be a male Anagrammy. (sorry if my posts seem disjointed - don't know how to use the quote function)
One of the reasons people stay with people or put up with them... it takes great courage to leave someone you love. Much, much, much easier to just stay and hope. Despite the continual heartache and torment of staying with them. People love differently, in different ways. People have different needs. I can understand most scenarios involving love, when I approach it from the stand point that none of it makes any sense. (lol)